I was on vacation last week, and used that time in contemplation. My conclusion was that I had too many irons in the online fires.
The Samhain's Sirens project has run its course, so it's been gently laid to rest. I've spent a lot of time serving the online Pagan community between that project and The Sunday Stew, but not enough time in reading, writing, and doing artful things.
This is a flaw of mine; I tend to give back more than I take in for my own growth and edification. I'm learning to change this, and I highly encourage you other overachievers to do the same.
Many people see Samhain as "The Witches' New Year"- I do not. I see it as the beginning of "the time between the times," with Yule as the beginning of the new year. It's okay to see it however you like, this is just my particular bent. So, during this time, I'm planning to do a little "cocooning" and doing more things that are not related to community service. I want to play around with photography, pyrography, drawing, writing and designing a new website.
My "Year of Living Dauntlessly" is quickly coming to a close. I'm pretty proud of the things I've accomplished thus far, most around drawing boundaries and defending them, but also in the areas of doing things my way and in the manner that makes me happy.I've also been reviewing ways of living a more healthy lifestyle. I'll be spending this time pondering this year, and as the new year approaches, looking for a new theme for next year. I think next year may just be the "Year of Living Artfully" (note to Sharon R: Yep, I'll be ordering a jar here, soon ;) )
It's been a great time off from work, and I did all of the things I wanted to do. I feel relaxed and ready to take on whatever the job has for me in the coming week.
I highly recommend taking some time to contemplate where you are, where you've been this year, and where you want to go. The holidays can be a very stressful, busy time, but they don't have to be that way for you. You can set boundaries and simplify wherever you like. This is your story- don't let anyone else write it for you.
I wish you a peaceful week ahead.
Sláinte! (To your good health!)
It is true that to everything there is a time and a season. Knowing when to let go and let something end, even it is was still beautiful, is one of the best things we can learn.Thank you for all you do for the Pagan Community on line. I made some great friends within Samhain's Sirens and I am very grateful. I will be more than willing to help you with your new theme for this year's jar. Thank you for the mention. I have been living in somewhat of a fog since we moved to Arizona. It is definitely time for more reflection, more consciousness, more art, more of me being present. It is nice to know that I am not alone in thinking this. Good luck!
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